When I Didn’t Listen to My Gut (And What It Cost Me)

I lost a job I thought I loved. At the time, it felt like a devastating blow—but in hindsight, it was draining the life out of me. I was working six days a week, arriving early, staying late, skipping meals, and giving it everything I had. Still, I felt empty.

After two months of unemployment, I received a job offer. But the moment it came through, I had a sinking feeling in my gut. Something told me to say no. Still, against my better judgment, I accepted it. I had bills to pay and a family to support, so I pushed down the discomfort and moved forward.

In the two weeks leading up to my start date, I spiraled into a full-blown meltdown. I knew deep down this job wasn’t right. But I ignored the signs and walked into it anyway.

From day one, things felt off. The person who was supposed to train me—someone with 20 years of experience—seemed unsure of even the most basic parts of the role. She constantly called vendors for help with things I already knew how to handle. But I couldn’t act without her approval. So I sat at my desk for hours, day after day, searching for ways to stay busy.

I kept thinking about that gut feeling I ignored. I knew this would happen. I knew it wasn’t right. But I talked myself out of trusting that inner voice.

Here’s what I’ve learned: your intuition is there for a reason. It doesn’t always make sense on paper, and it won’t always be convenient—but it’s never wrong. I didn’t listen, and I ended up in a job that made me miserable. The next time, I’ll choose differently.

And I hope you will too. If something feels off… trust that feeling. It’s not just anxiety. It’s wisdom.